A feast for the eyes!

I'm tired of being yelled at by my boyfriend. We have been together for over five years and he is my first boyfriend.

1. He makes fun of me constantly (and says he's teasing).

2. Calls me lazy.

3. Ignores me when I tell him about my day or my problems then continues to talk about himself non -stop, refuses to help me in a crisis yet expects me to be there for him at the drop of a hat.

4. Worst part is he thinks he's right and that he is the perfect boyfriend. I have forgotten what it must feel like to be in a good, happy relationship.

5. He gets extremely angry at me for things, that don't even make any sense. when he gets mad or calls me mean names too, and insults me, hangs up on me, yells at me etc beside he's very stingy.

6.He controls our money we hardly go out for dinner he counts every penny getting sick of him.

I know I don't deserve to be treated so disrespectfully but what are my options other then leaving? How can someone really believe acting the way he does is healthy?

Yikes! I'm curious about how you respond when he does this.