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Forcing a relationship is the most unnatural thing to do but you will be amaze to learn that people have been forced or pushed into relationships and even marriages without feeling love for that person. Yes, you know someone like that I bet. People have been the same through the year s; we are looking for someone special to meet and build a relationship that can lead to marriage.

But how do you force someone into a relationship or even marriage? By being impatient you can lead yourself to a relationship cause by feelings of lust, infatuation or admiration for the wrong reasons.

If a man loves you he will try to find every excuse to stay physicall close to you, to touch and feel you. But if he has become less affectionate, if he doesn't show any interest in being intimate with you then it surely is a sign of trouble.

Sometimes it can be quite difficult to not force something when we want it badly; but forcing someone to be in a relationship or love you is a recipe for total disaster. Surprisingly, some people don’t even realize when they’re forcing love. They go through the motions, making excuses for why the other person isn’t reciprocating their actions. The reality is if you are always on the giving in of love and never receiving it, it may not exist in the other person.Every other plan has been made by you. He simply accepts, and at times declines. However, he never makes the arrangements. It can very well be a case of him not having to do anything because he knows that you will take care of it. If he doesn’t initiate or make time to see you, then don’t force the issue.
He disregards serious matters unless you’re dating a child and not a grown man, at times your relationship will call for serious conversations and he should be ready to discuss the matters at hand. By nature, women may want to ‘talk’ more than men, but if he’s always changing the subject when you’re talking about your future, how to make your relationship better, or anything that calls for a serious tone, you may want to evaluate the relationship. SMELL THE COFFEE

If it were up to you, the two of you would talk multiple times a day. If it were up to him, he would be fine speaking to you once a day or non. If you find yourself being the only one sending good morning or goodnight texts or the only one in the relationship calling and doing a ‘just checking on you’ you may be forcing something that is not really there.
If a man wants to speak to you, he will make time and keep in mind just because he answers your calls doesn’t mean that he can’t live without you. If he’s just as serious about you as you are about him, he would initiate texts or call more.

No one likes to feel rejected, especially if the rejection is coming from someone that you care about. If you’re in a relationship and you’re constantly met by rejection, it may be time to reevaluate the situation. If your significant other is not willing to compromise or at least allow you to have things your way sometimes his “no’s” may say a lot about how he feels about the relationship.

When a relationship seems to be heading out the window, guys often tend to take on more work as they try to be around you less and less. Sure many guys love their job and do put the work in, but you will notice a sudden change of how much time he really puts into his work compared with before.

If you’re constantly doing a ‘how do you feel about me?do you love me? check with your significant other, either he doesn’t’ care to share, doesn’t’ know, or doesn’t want to hurt your feelings. Either way it’s the signs of an unhealthy relationship. When you’re unsure of how your man feels about you or if if loves you and he never cares to share, it’s important to not make up feelings for him that actually don’t exist.

Don't force yourself to have space in a person's life that doesnt recognize your worth. Instead use the time and energy that you want to dedicate to people of this nature in an effort to better yourself. Work on yourself, and work on the other relationships that matter to you, so that you may easily become the best you by the end of your lifetime. Relationships end when you are the only one who's trying.